A breakup happens for a reason. However, if the breakup between two people was merely on the grounds of some normal things, they should certainly think of getting back as the person who was with you so long knows you better than anybody else and his or her stay would always give you a point to enjoy life.
But, if the breakup was owing to a kind of rejection, the situation then becomes very tense for him/her and will see them crying. He would be crawling into a hole for months together as it needs time to get over the emotional breakups.
Though the basic principle after the breakup is that when one of them are discarded, he/she should leave that person alone and never give any sort of sign that you are crying for him. Once it is over, it’s over.
As far as getting back is concerned, if the guy rejects you, you should not try to patch up or go back to him because there is no promise that he will not do that to you again.
Everyone whoever has been in love with somebody always has a hard time taking over the past. There are also people, who after a breakup want to hang on in the relation and allow them to keep being rejected again and again.
What is important is that some people hurt those more than face rejection and this causes a lot of mental strain and humiliation to them. Hence, they should be brave enough to fight the situation.
Rather, one should hold his/her head high and continue a sense of self-worth to let others think that you are not a masterpiece of metal that can be seen and rejected. Be careful next time and do not permit anyone to reject you anymore.
